Common Therapy Myths:
Updated: Feb 28
Myth: Psychotherapist just listen to you vent, so why pay someone to listen to you complain?
A therapist will often begin the process of psychotherapy by asking you to describe the problem that has brought you into his or her office. But that's just psychotherapy's starting point. They will also gather relevant information on your background, as well as the history of your problems and other major areas of your life, and the ways you have tried to address the concerns.
Myth: You can get better on your own if you just try hard enough and keep a positive attitude?
Many people have tried to solve their problems on their own for weeks, months or even years before starting psychotherapy but have found that that it’s not enough. Deciding to start psychotherapy doesn't mean you’ve failed, just like it doesn't mean you’ve failed if you can't repair your own car. There may be a biological component to some disorders, such as depression or panic attacks, which make it incredibly difficult to heal yourself. Ultimately, having the courage to reach out and admit you need help is a sign of strength rather than weakness — and the first step toward feeling better.
Myth: Talking to family members or friends is just as effective as going to a therapist?
Support from family and friends you can trust is important when you're having a hard time. But a therapist can offer unbiased information and interventions rather than talking to family or friends. Therapist have years of specialized education, training and experience that make them experts in understanding and treating complex problems. Research shows that psychotherapy is effective and helpful. The techniques a therapist uses during psychotherapy are developed over decades of research and more than “just talking and listening.”
Myth: Only crazy people go to psychotherapy?
The stigma connected to getting help for psychological or behavioral concerns used to be a strong deterrent for people. But getting help is now seen as a sign of resourcefulness. People seek psychotherapy for a range of reasons in everyday life, including dealing with depression, grief or substance abuse. Yet others need help managing and balancing the demands of parenting, work and family responsibilities, coping with medical illness, improving relationship skills or managing other stressors that can affect just about all of us. Anyone can benefit from psychotherapy to become a better problem solver.